It's time for another installment of our "Ask Jew or Not Jew" feature, where young readers write in for advice. Here's a letter we recently received.
Dear Jew or Not Jew, I just met this hot Jewish guy with a great sense of humor. If I marry him, do I have to convert? — Heather Rodgers, 18, Hoboken, New Jersey
Wow. Slow down for just a second. We're very happy for you, but you just met him? And you're thinking marriage?
On the other hand, if he is hot (wait, did we read this right? Jewish guy? Hot?) AND has a great sense of humor... Well...
It's up to you, really. Take a look at the Stiller family. Anne Meara married Jerry and converted. Christine Taylor married Ben and didn't. It's all about what you feel is right...
On the other hand, if you have to ask that question...
The answer is YES.
Yours in true romance,
Jew or Not Jew.